Sex Tips and Advice

What To Do When Your Partner Is Terrible In Bed

What To Do When Your Partner Is Terrible In Bed

We have all been here. You meet someone new. You become immediately attracted to them and they are smart, sexy, funny and ton of other great things. This leads to you two seeing each other a few more times and you’re really into this person. Naturally, you decide to take things to the next level, the physical level. Days or weeks have led up to this moment and you’re filled with anticipation on what you are sure will be a mind blowing, spiritual level, toe-curling sexual encounter. That moment finally came and, well,………. you didn’t. You try to chalk it...

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Sex Positions Women Hate

Sex Positions Women Hate

  I sat pondering on what my next topic to write about and it brought me to a conversation that I had with a customer today. For those of you reading who aren’t familiar with me, I own a sex toy store. I also take customer service calls for said store. Yes, people call a sex toy store with questions…..a lot. Most people are also shocked when I tell them that 60% of my customers are men. Don’t assume they are all gay men, they certainly are not. Most are heterosexual, a lot are married and one may even have...

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6 Ways To Keep Your Vagina Happy

6 Ways To Keep Your Vagina Happy

You may laugh at the title of this post. Can your vagina really be unhappy? Speaking as a woman with a vagina, I certainly think so. I can’t speak for all women but my vagina and I have a very unique method of nonverbal communication and she makes sure to let me know when something isn’t quite right. How Do I Keep Her Happy? Before you assume that I’m some delusional crazy woman, I know my vagina isn’t a separate being and we obviously don’t communicate. Although, I would love to let my vagina take full responsibility for a couple,...

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Porn: The Good, Bad And Everything In Between

Porn: The Good, Bad And Everything In Between

Porn, erotica, pornos, smut…whatever you decide to call it, whether you love it or hate, isn’t going anywhere in the foreseeable future. Is porn good or bad for us? Is it sinful and immoral or liberating and empowering? Usually when these questions are asked it leads to an intense argument of personal opinions and little else. The sex industry is often looked at as morally corrupt and this doesn’t stop with porn.  Anything sex related has a multitude of restrictions. For example, I own an adult sex toy store and marketing for it is severely limited although they are perfectly...

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Cervical Orgasm. Fact or Fiction?

Cervical Orgasm. Fact or Fiction?

Most of the time when I mention cervical orgasm it is met with blank stares and looks of confusion.  I think to myself, certainly other people know about this. Then I remind myself one of the most googled questions around the world is “How to insert a penis in a vagina”.  Sad but true. To be fair, most people only hear mention of their cervix at the Gynecologist office.  When I think about it like that, I’m not really surprised this wonderful thing isn’t widely known. I will admit that there was a time I didn’t know what it was...

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