All Tied Up! BDSM Tips for Beginners!

Are you curious about erotic and consensual BDMS play but not yet ready to invest in a full scale playroom or dungeon? We can help. You don't have to spend a fortune on every sex machine or master all of the knots. With a few tips you will be ready to indulge in some BDSM play.

1. Communication is key. Even when talking about dominance and submission, remember BDSM is about a mutual power exchange. That means that even if a submissive partner is tied up and allowing the dominant partner to dictate what is happening, the boundaries have been discussed and agreed upon by all partners beforehand.

 2. Talk dirty. Are you a bad girl that want's to be reprimanded? Ask you partner to talk dirty to you. Explicit talk allows you to verbalize your fantasies. Verbal cues also add to the fantasy. Say you want your partner to tell you how they are going to tie you up before they do it, that definitely adds to the anticipation 

3. Practice makes perfect. Nothing can kill a mood like not knowing how to use your equipment. There are many types of restraints and some harder than others. Spend some time before hand to test out your new BDSM gear.

4. Blindfolds. Yes, blindfolds. While it may seem more on the vanilla side of BDSM, don't underestimate the power of sensory deprivation. Eliminating visual stimuli enhances everywhere else. Not being able to see what your partner has in store for you next will add to the tension and anticipation. 


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