How to make a woman orgasm?

If you’re a man, chances are you have asked this question at least once. It happens to be one of the most googled questions too.  Orgasms can be elusive for a lot of women. So, how do you make a woman orgasm?

Firstly, ask her, not Google.  She knows what she likes and what we like varies from woman to woman. Hesitant to ask? Well, as a woman, I highly recommend asking. Trust me when I say she will not see that negatively.  She will love that you are invested in making her feel good. That alone may get her turned on.

Speaking of turned on, foreplay, foreplay foreplay……..oh, and did I mention foreplay? From time to time the wind may blow and we are ready for action but those times are few and far between. If you really want to bring her to climax, it starts here. Not only will it get her ready to orgasm but it will provide lubrication.  In general, the majority of women do not orgasm from penetration. A good combination of oral stimulation, kissing and manual stimulation can do the trick.

Get acquainted with the two most important areas on her body related to orgasm, the clitoris and the g-spot.  The clitoris can be found at the top of the vulva and contains a ton of nerve endings. It also becomes erect when stimulated. To find the G-spot, gently slide your finger inside her vagina with your palm facing up, then curl your finger up in a "come hither" motion. Be very attentive to her reaction and ask her what she likes. Some women prefer a light pressure while others are okay with more pressure.   Try different techniques too.

Lastly, positions are important for her orgasms. That doesn’t mean you have to stick with just these but if your goal is to maximize her pleasure these positions stimulate both the clitoris or the g-spot.

  • Rear-entry. This provides easy access to the g spot and if you want to send her over the edge, reach around and manual stimulate the clitoris, or use a vibrator.
  • Sitting on your lap. This position not only stimulates the g spot but will simultaneously provide clitoral stimulation
  • Her on top. This provides the best access to the g spot. She controls the position and can use movement to also stimulate the clitoris.

Continue to try new things and keep asking for her feedback. You may not get it right the first time but I guarantee you will both have fun trying.

 

Nikki

https://www.thewonderlandco.com


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