Sex Tips and Advice

Impact Play: The Beginners Guide to Whips, Crops, Paddles and Floggers

Impact Play: The Beginners Guide to Whips, Crops, Paddles and Floggers

Spanking is a stimulating part of anyone’s sex life. You might be new to it or you enjoy a little spanking here and there but impact play toys can boost your sex life to new horizons.  Impact play, known by the BDSM community, is the act of using and object or hand to strike your sexual partner. Impact play toys can range from crops, whips, canes and floggers. Each are different and offer different sensations.  Keep in mind, all can be used with varying levels of touch, from light to extreme. Spanking Consensual, adult spanking is a main stay in...

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From Sexting to the Pillow: The Ultimate Guide to Dirty Talk

From Sexting to the Pillow: The Ultimate Guide to Dirty Talk

Maybe you are already a pro, a sultry vixen who has no problem getting all your sexual thoughts to roll off your tongue in a way that sends shivers down your partners spine. Or, maybe you struggle sex talk and after giving it your best you yell out something awkward that leaves you both in a “wtf” moment and suddenly you’re drier than the Sahara desert, so to speak. Maybe you don’t talk at all during sex. Well, you should. It’s hella hot! I’m taking the liberty of making assumptions and assume, if you are reading this, you want to...

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Let's Talk Sexuality

Let's Talk Sexuality

What is sexuality? Simply put, sexuality is defined by our capacity to experience sexual feelings. It is also our sexual preference or orientation. While we may think we have a clear understanding or our sexuality, it isn’t always that straightforward. Sexuality and/or sexual preference is fluid for a lot of people. What we like and prefer can change, sometimes several times throughout our lives. Some of us know exactly what we want and what “label” is attached but for others, it’s not as easy. So, lets discuss different types of sexual orientations. While there are many, we will discuss the...

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Improving Sexual Stamina

Improving Sexual Stamina

Whether we openly admit it or not, sex is one of the most important areas of our lives. It’s an area that we want to continuously grow, learn and get better…..or at least we should. There is nothing worse than a mundane, monotonous sex life. Whether it’s to increase your pleasure, enhance your partner’s experience or just learn some new tricks, here are a few things to try to increase your sexual stamina. First things first, if you are having issues with stamina, decreased libido or difficulty achieving an orgasm, visit your doctor. As a woman, I cannot stress this...

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Sex During a Pandemic

Sex During a Pandemic

Let’s all admit that being stuck inside during quarantine is no fun. What better way to pass the time and get a little exercise in than engage in sex….but you ask, how do we stay safe? I think it’s important to point out that COVID is not sexually transmitted but can be transmitted through normal acts of intimacy such as kissing and oral sex. Let’s talk a bit about the safest option, masturbation of self-stimulation. Masturbation is hands down the safest way to engage in sex and not expose yourself to COVID.  It’s entire possible to keep this risk to...

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